A Half Birthday

On Tuesday, Schäfer turned two and a half. We don’t usually celebrate half birthdays because for us July is just as busy as December.

After two days of hard rain, the sky was as blue as it could be and we found ourselves out for an evening walk with 4 free hours. Let’s celebrate!

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Schäfer rode his bike to the office where we get our mail. It was a rather long bike ride, but after being inside for 2 days he didn’t seem to mind – especially when he saw this digger.

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Let’s go downtown and ride your bike around the square! OK! Before we knew it, we hopped on the bus – bike and all. We decided to check out a new hotel that opened last week.

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On the 39th floor, we found the most amazing views of Yichang! What a beautiful day!

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It’s hard to wrap our minds around how many people live here. Each little apartment square holds a family of 3 or a family of 5 if the grandparents live there! Multiply each apartment by how many floors the building has and well, pretty soon you’re at 1.4 million.

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Schäfer loved zooming his bike around the square.

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And since we were celebrating 2.5 wonderful years of life, we opted for KFC for supper.

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Why dip when you can drink?

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At about 7:30 we took the bus home.

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Right now, Schäfer loves to “lay down and swim backwards.” He gets in the tub before the water and lays there until the water covers him completely. He also loves to dive face first in the water and make bubbles.

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18 Months Down

Today marks 18 months of waiting for our adopted child.

Let’s celebrate this marker by listing 18 things we’re excited about. OK!

blueberries
It’s true. Don’t hate us. We have a friend who started a blueberry farm several years ago. Oh yes, there’s been a crop. We can get 2 overflowing cups of blueberries for 13rmb ($1.76). We’ve already made the most incredible blueberry muffins which caused me to say, “It’s just like Christmas morning!” – a phrase rarely uttered from my lips.

only one week of school left before summer

It’s a Lunar Calendar thing. Even though The Heat is cranking up, we’ve still got one more week until summer vacation officially starts.

family vacation
We plan on taking a family vacation to…well, that has yet to be finalized. Hubs asked me where I’d like to go and in all seriousness, I said, “A ski slope in Australia or New Zealand.” because I’d honestly like to go sit in some snow wearing my capri pants and v-neck tee. Yes, I’m that hot.

today’s rain
It rained today and I’m not sure if I’ve ever been more thankful for rain. Hubs thought we could turn off the air conditioner, but I found the humidity too thick.

the pool has water
The campus has a large swimming pool that was filled with water this week. Since Schäfer has been diving into the bathtub head first, I’d say he’s ready for some swimming. (He started diving into the bathtub when we saw a diving competition on the tv at the bus station. Random, but he was captivated.)

Justin & Crystal’s LOVE
We got a care package today & let me say that The Love was spread. Hubs is particularly excited about having medium sized Rubbermaid lids (we had the containers but no lids to go on them) He’s also excited about a bottle of Shoe Goo. I’m excited about grape flavored Crystal Light. For me, grape is the flavor of summer. It takes me back to snow cones at VBS.

the dictionary application on the Mac
Hubs just discovered how cool the Dictionary application is on the Mac. It just is.

James the Red Engine
Schäfer has been one busy boy. I just realized that after the first week of potty training, I stopped carrying around underwear and extra clothes. I can’t wait to present James to him. I’m sure he’ll finish his chart by Wednesday.

Hershey’s Special Dark 65% cacao

Yum. We bought this at Wal-Mart in Wuhan. It is surprisingly good. Each square was individually wrapped which kept me from eating the entire bar.

the Kindle’s great summer reading list
Yes, we have access to English books!

The Great Burger Competition ‘09
“Where I pit myself against myself in 18 different ways.” A one man Iron Chef. And the theme is: BURGER! And the winner is…Hubs!

The Great Office Clean Sweep ‘09
This event probably won’t officially happen until a 106 degree day in August, but Hubs and I have both committed to do it. Since the office is truly Hubs main space, we’ll need to tackle it together.

celebrating our 7th anniversary
We still haven’t gotten away for our anniversary and in some weird way delaying the celebration has made me look forward to it all the more.

Hubs birthday
I’m so excited about Hubs 34th birthday this year. The menu is starting to come together. Schäfer is trying to convince me that it’s really HIS birthday. “No! It’s not Papa’s birthday. It’s my birthday.”

Red Cross certificate

Hubs has been working towards a Red Cross certificate. It should arrive in the mail soon. The Red Cross is also helping to provide some introductions which is a blessing.

less stress. more sleep.
Seriously – we’ve been needing more sleep than we’ve been getting. What can we say? We’re excited about the possibility of getting more sleep!

coke zero
Yes, I’m still excited about it.

another month of waiting passed
We love you little one. Where ever you are – we are anxious to wrap you in our arms forever.

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Schäfer Speak

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Schäfer is officially two and a half! The two’s have their ups and downs. Since we’ve had a few down moments lately (most recently we’ve added screaming over food that is “broken”), I’ve started writing down some of the funny things he’s saying.

After receiving 2 potty treats, “Can I share my treats with my friends?”  And he did. He took them outside and divided them three ways.

While riding his bike, “Can I start my mou tou che? (motorcycle) vroom! vroom!”
“I must turn on the key.” (turns on the imaginary key)
“Can I ring my bell?” (rings the imaginary bell)
“I’m going super fast!”
As he zooms by the neighbors, he proclaims, “Zhe shi wo de mou tou che.!” (This is my motorcycle!)

One morning he called for me really early. I rushed to him because I thought he might want to go potty. When I reached down to pick him up he said, “The pancakes are spicy! I can’t eat it!” He was still completely asleep.

While holding an ice cube, “Ohhhh! It’s a cold winter!”

After tasting a Sunkist Grapefruit soda, “This is spicy!”

“Can I watch a Baby I’m Stein?”

“May I have my flashlight please? I need to flash.”

“I’m clever. I’m good at spotting boats.”

Me: You’re such a big, big, big boy!
He: Can I have a pocket knife now?

We have this conversation every single morning without fail:
Me: What did you dream about last night?
He: Raffe driving a cement mixer in Thailand!

When he gets out of the bathtub he’ll say, “I need to go ice myself.” because he likes to ice skate around the living room.

Me: Thanks for helping! You’re a Really Useful Engine!
He: I’m not an engine! I’m a boy!

He: Can I have that? (pointing to my wedding ring)
Me: No. You can’t have that. Papa gave that to me. Someday you’ll marry a beautiful bride and you can give her a ring.
He: NO!
Me: Do you want to marry an ugly bride?
He: I just want to read books with you.

We were walking past an undergarment store. The mannequins weren’t wearing much. Schäfer said, “She’s getting ready to take her bath!”

When we got in a taxi which had a female taxi driver, Schäfer said, “You’re not a shu shu!” (you’re not an uncle!)

The next day we saw a lady riding on a the back of the garbage truck. Schäfer said, “She’s the garbage man!”

While looking at his sippy cup, “The milk is in the cup. It goes into the drinker. The drinker goes into my mouth.”

While rolling around on the couch, “I am a hamster!” Do you mean that you want a pet hamster? He replied, “No! I am a hamster!”

Me: Do you want a brother or a sister?
He: Adopted girl. Can I have a ladder to sleep up top? (because he saw a picture in a book of siblings with bunk beds)

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All Tuckered Out

Monday felt like Thursday.

Thursday felt like Tuesday.

Friday feels like Friday.

Thank goodness.

On Monday, the Lotus Pond Gang went to the mall. Ting and Zhang wanted to shop for clothes. I don’t enjoy wandering around for nothing in particular, but I went anyway because in China I say “yes” to all kinds of things that I’d never do in America.

Once at the mall, Schäfer and I went to play at the toy store. After about 45 minutes, Schäfer had a huge meltdown. He left such a warm impression as I scooped him and and hauled him down 5 floors of escalators.

I asked the taxi driver to head home, but really I wanted to say, “Drive straight to the Nanamaw’s.” I was so exhausted from a week of Hubs being away and not sleeping well, that I just wanted to drop Schäfer off at my Mom’s, wish him a wonderful time of unlimited mac n’ cheese, and return home for 48 hours of slumber.

By Thursday, I was back to my normal self until I received a promotional e-mail from JetBlue Airways offering $29 fares to Bermuda and the Carribean. Again, dropping Schäfer off at the Nanamaw’s seemed like a reasonable idea so Hubs and I could enjoy a long, long nap in the tropics.

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Got swine flu? Take a Tylenol.

Occasionally, we get an health update from the practice our birth doctor in Hong Kong is a part of.

Due to Swine Flu, Hong Kong basically shut down for 2 weeks. China is considering taking similar measures: no school, no activities of any kind where groups of people gather, encouragement to stay indoors, etc.

Hubs just hosted a group of American students in Beijing because our city did not want them to enter until they had shown no Swine Flu symptioms for 7 days.

And the entire neighborhood is thankful and relieved when they learn that we will be spending the summer here instead of America – where surely almost everyone has Swine Flu.

All of this to say, that throughout this entire Swine Flu Pandemic we’ve been living in a country that has taken measures to make sure the spreading is minimal.

Are these measures extreme?

When 1.3 billion lives are at risk, I don’t think it’s my place to judge.

I was thankful to receive this update because it clarified one thing: If we do catch Swine Flu, we should take a Tylenol.

OT&P Influenza Update
June 24, 2009.

We have now accumulated a significant amount of information on the current flu epidemic. We have explained in our previous newsletters the rationale for the public health interventions. Remember the key questions in infectious disease relate to:

The Epidemic: How likely am I to catch this illness?

The Disease: What will happen to me if I catch this illness?

There is now very good evidence that the current influenza is very infectious and it is therefore likely that a high percentage of the population will eventually be infected. The current statistics almost certainly underestimate the true incidence. It is our opinion that the virus is freely circulating within our population.

Fortunately the current flu strain produces a mild illness. It is tending to infect younger members of the population. The vast majority are experiencing mild symptoms and making a full and complete recovery. As an example there have been more than 2700 cases in the UK with 1 death occurring in a patient with significant medical problems. (Note: That’s a .03% mortality rate.) Hong Kong has had 408 cases with no deaths. The case numbers in both countries are certain to significantly underestimate the true incidence of the illness. Most countries and many doctors in Hong Kong (including ourselves) are not testing for the virus. By comparison seasonal flu has a mortality of between 1 and 3 per cent.

This obviously produces a contradiction between the public health measures, such as isolation and school closures and the mild illness. We have explained previously the rationale for this in public health terms. Hong Kong has an excellent public health system and decisions on social distancing (such as school closures) are made in an attempt to reduce the intensity and severity of the illness in population terms.

Currently patients testing positive for influenza are being isolated in hospital and treated with tamiflu. Whilst there is very clear evidence for isolating infected individuals we do not believe that an influenza epidemic is best managed in hospital. There is no evidence base for the widespread use of tamiflu in this situation. The initial use of tamiflu was a population intervention aimed at slowing the spread of an epidemic. Now we know more about the natural history of the infection it is our opinion that the majority of patients will require no medication for this illness.

What Should I do if I have symptoms?

If you develop a fever you should manage the illness as with any normal viral illness. Wear a mask if you have upper respiratory symptoms and stay at home. Wash hands regularly and encourage household hygeine. Cover the mouth and nose when sneezing or coughing and dispose of tissues. “Catch it, Kill it, Bin it”. Treat the fever with paracetomol. Children under 2 and pregnant women who become ill should see their doctor. If you are concerned contact your GP. Please wear a mask when you visit the surgery.

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